not that this is a recent realization of mine but i know that everyone has problems and of late I've really wanted to help however i can, maybe its my recent job loss giving me the free time to do so, but i feel like i need to be there for all those around me.
Once you take the time to actually listen, you realize the amount of pain and suffering people are either inflicting upon themselves through self pity or anger or seeing that anger and pain being inflicted upon them by people.
For those in the first half, i can sympathize with you, but i can also look outside my own life and view it from another's perspective and try to rectify the wrongs I'm doing. I can honestly say that im the person that can put their hands up and admit i am wrong and begin to make a change. This aint a easy process but i feel like i can now. and I'm finding it more clear everyday that people don't want to do that, or they do but they dont want to do anything about it when it comes to it. and you need to stop, its self destructive to your own personal preservation.
The second half of people either don't understand they are the victims and they think they can change the outcome through feeble means, but that is NEVER going to happen. You need to be strong realise YOU ARE the VICTIM but you DO NOT have to be and stand up for yourself. Sticks n Stones can break your bones and name and words WILL CRUSH YOU! the person who said they don't hurt is stupid. The mind is such a fragile thing, but if you can see whats happening that's the first step to getting out of your situation.
Some people just need to communicate and not with their friends but the person they feel is causing the altercation, which can sometimes be the hardest thing to do, but collect your argument in your head, see the pro's n con's and if you KNOW your not wrong you wont fail, just be confident and know that your being taken for a ride and this PRiCK will either turn to profanity and past experience to hurt you or turn to violence, in which case you phone me and the family are RIDING to your rescue...
This will only apply to the minority... for more time we are the tyrant without realizing it, in which case, you need to gather your thoughts and grow asa person. If your still trying to belittle people for you own personal gain, or bitching behind others back you haven't full comprehended what the world is and has to offer, its so much bigger than that.
Thats straight off the dome, no proof reading, so apologies if it makes no freaking sense.
Once you take the time to actually listen, you realize the amount of pain and suffering people are either inflicting upon themselves through self pity or anger or seeing that anger and pain being inflicted upon them by people.
For those in the first half, i can sympathize with you, but i can also look outside my own life and view it from another's perspective and try to rectify the wrongs I'm doing. I can honestly say that im the person that can put their hands up and admit i am wrong and begin to make a change. This aint a easy process but i feel like i can now. and I'm finding it more clear everyday that people don't want to do that, or they do but they dont want to do anything about it when it comes to it. and you need to stop, its self destructive to your own personal preservation.
The second half of people either don't understand they are the victims and they think they can change the outcome through feeble means, but that is NEVER going to happen. You need to be strong realise YOU ARE the VICTIM but you DO NOT have to be and stand up for yourself. Sticks n Stones can break your bones and name and words WILL CRUSH YOU! the person who said they don't hurt is stupid. The mind is such a fragile thing, but if you can see whats happening that's the first step to getting out of your situation.
Some people just need to communicate and not with their friends but the person they feel is causing the altercation, which can sometimes be the hardest thing to do, but collect your argument in your head, see the pro's n con's and if you KNOW your not wrong you wont fail, just be confident and know that your being taken for a ride and this PRiCK will either turn to profanity and past experience to hurt you or turn to violence, in which case you phone me and the family are RIDING to your rescue...
This will only apply to the minority... for more time we are the tyrant without realizing it, in which case, you need to gather your thoughts and grow asa person. If your still trying to belittle people for you own personal gain, or bitching behind others back you haven't full comprehended what the world is and has to offer, its so much bigger than that.
Thats straight off the dome, no proof reading, so apologies if it makes no freaking sense.
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